Any weakness among those you love is assumed to be attractive

By: N. George

Worth Noting:

• There are those who go a step further and bleach their skins to lighten them. The danger of doing this is that if people fall in love with you due to that light skin thereafter happen to find someone similar to you with natural light skin they will shift their loyalty from you for the better newly found deal.
• To those who prefer to remain natural despite feeling unsatisfied in some areas whether height, skin colour or body shape if they happen to find lovers they are likely to sustain their love as they chose them intentionally and fully aware of their short comings.

Not that the clear perception of certain weaknesses in those whom we love in any way diminishes our affection for them; rather that affection makes us find those weaknesses charming ………….Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower.

In the bible we hear about the corner stone and how builders had initially rejected it only to later on discover its great importance to an extent that any stone that fell on it got broken and any stone it fell on it crushed it. Upon this realization the builders fell in love with it and could only focus on benefits that they derived from it. Its weaknesses were overshadowed by its strengths.

Many of parents who are strict to their kids during early development stages are not liked much by them as they compare themselves with other children who come from more liberal families but once they become independent and realize how the discipline in their upbringing is helping them succeed in life it is when they appreciate their parents in a great way even to an extent of extending the same values to their kids.

Once they start appreciating efforts by their parents any other value they see their parent promote they just accept it without interrogating it further as according to them it is out of good intentions they are doing so.

Tall, dark and handsome are terms used to describe an ideal attractive man probably coined by someone who possesses these qualities in an attempt to justify that he is the standard unit of attractiveness but as known by everyone the size and shape of any human being are not prerogative of anyone to choose. You only come to know about these upon attainment of an age where you are able to recognise who you are and who others are.

There are those who put on makeup in an attempt to spice up their looks. It may work in their favour but the big question is whether they will remain committed to do this throughout their life time so as not to lose the allure.

There are those who go a step further and bleach their skins to lighten them. The danger of doing this is that if people fall in love with you due to that light skin thereafter happen to find someone similar to you with natural light skin they will shift their loyalty from you for the better newly found deal.

To those who prefer to remain natural despite feeling unsatisfied in some areas whether height, skin colour or body shape if they happen to find lovers they are likely to sustain their love as they chose them intentionally and fully aware of their short comings.

In fact, they will see them as real as no one is perfect. There will be no time and other resources wasted in attempt to justify their identities as their presentation is just natural.

In choosing who or what to deal with many people look at the overall goodness that is whether benefits exceeds shortcomings.

When you understand who you are and appreciate your status your self-esteem is boosted. You are not swayed by other people’s opinion about you and you are at a good position to champion what you think is right without feeling intimidated or doubting your mission. Consequently the confidence in you makes your audience to trust whatever you are promoting.

Let us all accept that we all have strengths and weaknesses. Provided our strengths are more than our weaknesses we are beneficial to the society and we should focus on our positivities to improve human welfare.

Be an example to the world that anyone else who is like you can do meaningful thing to the world.