- When you awaken you stop allowing people to treat you badly just because you love them. You wrap your head around the truth that if you drink poison you will die, even if you were poisoned by someone you loved. That love without prudence is a huge liability because it makes you embrace those who are pushing a dagger into your back.
- When you become conscious you realize that missing someone who left you is not as bad as missing yourself because when they left you also lost yourself. You realize that just like you cannot see your face in boiling water so you couldn’t see yourself in a relationship churning with tension and strife. That in trying to salvage what was sinking you ended up drowning yourself and now you must start the journey of finding yourself again.
- Not every love was meant to last forever. Some loves were meant to show you that you’re beginning at the wrong end of love, that you can only begin with internal love. Appreciation of self. Investment in self.
- No one who is good for you will ask you to abandon yourself or to depart from the things that keep you blossoming. Your passions and your resourceful people. That anyone who is insecure about your way of life should not themselves be allowed into it, or they will cut you off from yourself.
- Love should feel both like coming home and being set free. Not being taken out of alignment and being possessed.
- Healing means not hating them anymore, and accepting what happened without forgetting the lessons it left you with. If you only suppress and forget everything without filtering the lessons you will be back to the same place again.
- Finally, that a lesson only becomes a law in your life when you write it and wire it. You write it down to internalise it and state it clearly. You wire it into your subconscious by reading it periodically until it replaces previous programming and habits.
By Govind jee