By: N. George
Worth Noting:
· At school level existence of school rules help to guide the students on what is allowed or disallowed however failure by the administrators to enforce the rules leads to their contravention by students who see no need for the existence of such regulations hence think that any mention of them is wastage of time and adhering to them is uncalled for straining.
· When you visit a physician and inform him of the signs that you are experiencing he has the duty to perform tests based on your narration and whatever else is observable but what he cannot see and it is not mentioned has a likelihood of going unchecked and untreated making it to remain a thorn to the patient.
The man dies in all those that keep silent. ……….…… Wole Soyinka
Culture is cumulative and repetitive acts done by human beings. Whatever you do whether good or bad repeatedly over a long period will form a pattern in your life easy to remember which will eventually become your culture.
Whenever something undesirable is happening while you are in-charge yet you do not bother about the doer and your subjects are aware of your character then they will assume that you are not opposing that habit.
A parent who fails to mention what are the do’s and don’ts of his house perhaps claiming that the schedule is making him or her busy, giving any other reason or remaining noncommittal to what is happening leaves the kid unafraid to engage in the don’ts as he or she is at liberty to do whatever he or she wishes and knows no severe repercussions.
At school level existence of school rules help to guide the students on what is allowed or disallowed however failure by the administrators to enforce the rules leads to their contravention by students who see no need for the existence of such regulations hence think that any mention of them is wastage of time and adhering to them is uncalled for straining.
When you visit a physician and inform him of the signs that you are experiencing he has the duty to perform tests based on your narration and whatever else is observable but what he cannot see and it is not mentioned has a likelihood of going unchecked and untreated making it to remain a thorn to the patient.
In such a case the patient has absolutely no reason to blame the physician as he is the one who failed to disclose the issue hence went untreated.
To those people who are usually quiet and unwilling to disclose their fears if they opt to commit suicide rarely do they get someone to support them perhaps counsel them to avoid a situation where they get stressed and strain, lose self-esteem eventually take away their lives.
Failure to openly display signs of discontentment will not help those around you to see need to come to your aid leaving yourself with a huge burden to shoulder all alone.
In families experiencing domestic violence the parties involved need to disclose it to external parties for support either in a calm manner or by making the situation noisy so that neighbours may become alert of the unease and take necessary interventions failure to which there could be oppression to death of the weaker party. External intervention will make the war liking partner to have fear of repercussions of those who come to learn of his or her violence and wish to intervene.
When you do not know how to carry out a certain operation though those you are with allocates you the task and you do not tell them of your weakness fearing that they may underrate you then you have put yourself at loggerhead with that person as he will be unhappy with you if you poorly do the task or fail to do it. His trust in you will die as he will think of you as a person who is sabotaging him unapologetically.
Constant mistreating other people yet not showing any sign of remorse is an indicator that you have no mercy so you are inhumane. Your humane aspect dies and you feel contented with whatever outcome.
Be alive to whatever is happening around you or whatever that comes to your notice. Be ready to appreciate it if it is a positive issue this will encourage the doer to continue with the virtue. If the matter is negative dissuade it so that the doer may be ashamed of repeating it.
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