Truth
By: N. George
Worth Noting:
- A fresh student at college level who does not have passion for the course he has opted to study but due to prestige associated with that course he decides to study it. The course as expected is boring to him throughout his college days.
- Upon graduating the boredom continues and the creativity level is low. Few years in practice and he feels disinterested in the work he is doing, decides to look for alternatives which include going back to the school to study a course that he has passion in arguing that he will not feel bored at any given day for studying the new line of interest.
It is better to endure the discomfort of the truth now than to suffer the discomfort of lie later ……… Simon Sinek.
Human beings are selfish in nature. At all times they want to enjoy life regardless of the situation yet not all situations are favourable. There are happy times when everyone is at merry while during other times there is need to suspend the entertainment and remain cautious.
Someone pregnant may deny the situation she is in the first few weeks or months but overtime all signs were observable from a distance. Some may opt to procure abortion which is dangerous as it may tamper with the uterus to an extent that they may fail to carry pregnancy to maturity in future. If one opts to accept the pregnancy, carry it normally then give birth this would eliminate future regrets about dangers associated with abortion or any kind of mess up with it.
Meeting a drug abuser and talking to him about drugs but he denies that he uses them. Your reason of enquiring from him is to help him change the habit at early stages before he becomes an addict his denial only serves as a deterrent for you from continuing with the discussion of that topic. With time he becomes an addict a stage where he cannot stop abusing drugs in the short run so he is required to attend counseling sessions while staying at a rehabilitation centre.
Those close to him who earlier on supported him to deny the facts to you become the great promoters of your ideas where they urge him to come up with measures to control the abuse before eventually stopping their consumption though by this time it is too late.
A fresh student at college level who does not have passion for the course he has opted to study but due to prestige associated with that course he decides to study it. The course as expected is boring to him throughout his college days.
Upon graduating the boredom continues and the creativity level is low. Few years in practice and he feels disinterested in the work he is doing, decides to look for alternatives which include going back to the school to study a course that he has passion in arguing that he will not feel bored at any given day for studying the new line of interest.
The effect of all the to and fro movements is wasted time and resources yet he did so intentionally through ignorance.
Getting married to someone who you do not love but due to the work and finance status you find it prestigious to pretend that you love him to enjoy the benefits he has only for you to be feeling discontented on daily basis, if he happen to become mean in your marriage then you know that you will not fully enjoy his finances you opt to quit at times with kids and having waste crucial chances during your prime time.
Being real you never miss to be with him anymore, he too is not feeling attracted to you anymore and moves on marrying another person then you start courting and marriage life afresh with lower bargain than you had during your previous relationship.