Mohichehra Rustamova
(Analysis of the story of Abdullah Qahhar)
By: Mohichehra Rustamova
Worth Noting:
- It is up to us how to nurture it. Everyone will be a parent in the future. This is a chain of life… continuous and uninterrupted. The lives of our heroes who say “dream” should be an example for us. He blames the mistakes he made on the coaches and is trying to get out of the water dry.
- Well, all this time has passed, and his child has reached school age. What now..? As they say, it’s better late than never, he could still feel responsible and go to the meeting, but he can’t even do that. Sometimes parents who are worried about their child’s future and don’t deal with it properly want to blame their teachers and “take it easy”.
Abstract. It is becoming a habit for us to find fault with others in any situation. We look for excuses every day, every hour, every second, undone tasks, unfulfilled tasks… We give up our humanity in order not to be a disgrace in front of others. We find excuses. , we turn the conversation to the other side and advance the time. Sometimes, we try to get out of the situation by blaming others for the tasks we are responsible for. This is our downfall. Holy family.
A person forgives himself very quickly, because he is himself. It is becoming a habit for us to find fault with others in any situation. We are looking for excuses every day, every hour, every second. We give up our humanity in order not to be embarrassed in front of others. Sometimes, we try to get out of the situation by blaming others for the tasks we are responsible for. This is our downfall. The family is sacred.
There are parents and children, so it is absolutely wrong in my opinion to think that this is a family. Because in a family, the upbringing of children is primarily the responsibility of the parents. The family is just collecting books. It is not a collection of people like a shelf. A family is a sea of love, a source of love, a foundation of trust… Parents have huge tasks. To do this, you need a strong will like a text, endurance and endless patience.
There is a wisdom left by philosophers: A child education should be started from the time when the child begins to form in the mother’s womb. When it comes into the world, it is necessary to be close with it, to have a heart-to-heart conversation, and to strengthen the bonds of affection day by day.
Of course, not by gossiping about others and analyzing others, it would be a great light for every parent to instill such feelings in any child who wants to be a parent in the future. It is just a seedling that has just been planted.
It is up to us how to nurture it. Everyone will be a parent in the future. This is a chain of life… continuous and uninterrupted. The lives of our heroes who say “dream” should be an example for us. He blames the mistakes he made on the coaches and is trying to get out of the water dry.
Well, all this time has passed, and his child has reached school age. What now..? As they say, it’s better late than never, he could still feel responsible and go to the meeting, but he can’t even do that. Sometimes parents who are worried about their child’s future and don’t deal with it properly want to blame their teachers and “take it easy”.
He should be able to think and speak after a thousand thoughts, and be able to maintain respect. Every child is a mirror of his parents. If you don’t like the character of your child, then first of all, he should lose this aspect of himself, first of all, he should be able to analyze himself. spends it in his circle. He gets the most from family members.
If you speak disparagingly, if you ask your child to respect him, in this case he will have to make a choice. At that time, he will be in a difficult situation. He starts to look for love in the street. And now the child is on the edge of a big and huge cliff, and you and others like you who want to use him come to save him.
Your advantage should be that you are a parent, don’t scare him by showing your love, sweet words, attention, motivation, and of course you are raising an animal that obeys some task. If you are raising a person, you should know how to listen to his dreams and be a shoulder partner in the realization of his plans.
If he dreams as big as the sky, be his wing, if he rises to the sky, his wing should not fall and become a shoulder partner and support him. stand up, don’t fall down the cliff if someone bad hits the ground, at least support him, tell him you love him every moment, be his helping angel, let him hope to live for your potential.
Give him freedom, you are not feeding a bird in a cage , let him spread his wings wide and breathe fresh air in the clear sky, let him create new things and decide to do good things. let him dream, just remember the distance between real life and dreams. Don’t raise a whip on the forehead of a galloping horse! Like you, your child comes to life only once.
In order not to regret later because of the mistake you made, you need to think carefully today. Take everything under your control today! Be interested in your future – the fate of your child. Give it a chance! At least once, let him try himself. It’s true, he makes mistakes, you also made mistakes, you came to the conclusion that this work is wrong only by making a mistake, did you know that his head will touch the stone slowly Not everyone is perfect, but it’s not hard to be perfect.
Let your child be interested in you in what you are doing, be proud of your achievements, achieve such an achievement that you will be sure that your child follows you by himself and starts dreaming of becoming a person like you. Encourage him if he has achieved a small achievement, even more give me spiritual support to achieve great achievements.
Even Thomas Edison is a famous person today because of his mother. The whole world remembers her every day when he turns on the lights in his room. Now this one lie is illuminating the whole world. Everything depends on your actions; your child did not fall from the sky. It is your liver…the more attention is paid to the sprout, the faster it develops. Let’s work now so that our young seedlings become beautiful trees. Let’s reform ourselves without wasting time looking for fault from everyone.. We can do it all!
Mohichehra Rustamova
4th year student of Urganch State University. In 2022, he was awarded the badge “For services in the field of science” and badge, in 2023 he actively participated in the international festival and became the owner of the badge “Scientific researcher”. In 2023, the owner of the “Hokim Scholarship”, the winner of the republican stage of the “Zomin Seminar-2022” of republican artists, an official member of many international organizations, has 6 authored books, articles and creative works have been published in international magazines and newspapers.
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