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Paula.O.M.Otukile
By: Paula.O.M.Otukile
Gaborone-Botswana
Every individual is very important in their own way. However as an adult see how each network benefit your spritual growth, economic, and social growth.
Although all humans are equally important every soul needs nourishment not negative energy. Try to seek a network that adds value than pull you down whenever you add people to your circle.
There are stagnant areas that can do with refurbishment of strong willed individuals with positive energy in your life. There are people you can love yet they are of no importance in regard to spritual growth and other areas. It is important to always minus them by setting boundaries through positive activities that eliminates negative energy bearing individuals.
Nature got a beautiful way of natural selection through activities we choose to engage in, you will find out that the more you get busy with soul nourishment or career building activities then the opportunities that brings negative energy bearing individuals diminishes, look into your circle and you will see years passing without seeing some individuals due to choices, it might be fate but reality is chance pulls those who are supposed to be there permanently and eliminates others easily if not by force.
The woman you choose, man, depends on your values yes, but friends and circle are certainly the same routine as choosing a spouse.
Look at your contacts in your phone, utility numbers set aside you shall realise that most of your contacts are the energies you carry, the career path you choose and faith that you got!
At times we carry meaningless contacts, people who watch and ignore your highlights, people who disregard your pain, and you are walking miles away from those who care, take time to surf and check, you will realise that having ten close family contact is more better than 500 contacts that barely greet you or that you drive or kickstart conversation with always.
Some days delete most meaningless contacts and check if you will not open door for more profitable and active mind blowing and growth filled contacts.
As the year ends review your contacts and remain with highly active ones and family, make a scale using months, check after two months how your life will be.
Contacts are there to contact you, you must make contact too, it’s mutual relationship, let it be reciprocal but then in the twenty first century block any negative energy if you feel it!
Be firm as a young adult and do not be apologetic on losing contact with friends who does not make effort to return the love, love them at a distance, each one of them even enemies deserve love but your phone needs fresh air.
It is better to walk alone than with a mob that does not yield nor bear growth. Do you agree?
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