By: Paula.O.M.Otukile
Values are what is important to an individual.
Each individual got what is important to them.
It is vital to have a distinct taste, choice and be autonomous in decision making even if one can seek advice from reliable sources or learned if not higher office.
There are different individuals who weigh more like parents, clan and friends, however despite cultural reasons or family values, each individual needs to face their mountain as they grow and decide.
Religion concerned, or faith is a personal choice. Friends, one associate with, style and manners a person carry themselves always are dependent on individual values.
In the society there are weak individuals who work or operate with mob psychology and hardly make individual decisions and they got spongy or copy cat decision making if not lack independence in their respective choices.
As we run for the last days of the year, and face a new year, revise you decisions year round and see where you fit, how your choices were and if you are proud?
What are your achievements and where will you love to be in few years? Do you think you can make it, or you need to separate yourself from other places or people?
Some people function far better individual than as a bunch, as we cast away festivals and jolly month, What walk away traits or aspects do you need to lose?
There are people you need to greet and say goodbye in your life that you are keeping and hinder your growth, and there are people you passed and left that you must have camped to learn more from them!
What choices do you have to revise and make a complete list of real values versus wants that you can do away with, some stagnation is due to less valuable things we put impossible importance to, that delay elevated shine in us.