By: Juliet Ike
Worth Noting:
- Yes! I understand the pressure, but please always remember that GROWTH does not take place at once, it is a gradual process and depending on which ever field you have decided to take, be certain that there were people before you, who of course did not get to their present stage overnight, there had to put in WORK, and not just any work, but hard and smart work.
- I have learnt to always remind myself that there is a need for me to enjoy every stage I pass through… If there is no STORY, then there won’t be GLORY.
- If at the end of my journey I cannot render any reasonable advice to someone struggling with his or her career that will make me a complete failure because there is nothing or proof to back up my achievement.
I got a mail from one of the top coaches across the world, and sincerely it really ministered to me, this is one of the reasons I thought I should share.
I don’t know how many of you have been in that situation where you feel “someone is doing better than you”, and as a result you neglect the place of your sanity…
Well, this message is for you!
Studies have shown that one of the reasons people attempt some dangerous risk taking actions is because of “little or no rewards”.
For instance, as much as the use of social media has contributed greatly to the growth and development of individuals as well nations, thereby opening new doors of opportunity for her, it is also believed to have some level of disadvantages especially if being used negatively.
If you do not take time to appreciate the little effort you put out, simply because you know someone in your clique who appears to be doing better than you are, just know certain feelings like depression and frustration will lay grip on you in no time.
Yes! I understand the pressure, but please always remember that GROWTH does not take place at once, it is a gradual process and depending on which ever field you have decided to take, be certain that there were people before you, who of course did not get to their present stage overnight, there had to put in WORK, and not just any work, but hard and smart work.
I have learnt to always remind myself that there is a need for me to enjoy every stage I pass through… If there is no STORY, then there won’t be GLORY.
If at the end of my journey I cannot render any reasonable advice to someone struggling with his or her career that will make me a complete failure because there is nothing or proof to back up my achievement.
Now back to the main story…
I understand that a lot of us are at the verge of loosing sanity to the online space… In fact, the competition appears to be so intended and you are already thinking of going back to square one, this is for you.
Below are five ways with you can attain productivity without any form of pressure or inferiority inside of you and also to help you attain maximum productivity on the online space;
- Detoxify your account- if it take you unfriending those persons who is stirring up your inferiority or blames, please do so… Friendship is not by force, your sanity is very important.
- Add new friends- friends you know will be able to give you the kind of contents you desire, people you can learn from and will be able to add value to you.
- Give out value consistently- be Intentional about creating values for others as well. As much as you are learning from others, you should have great contents inside of you that others can learn from.
- Be a problem solver- what is that you can help people with, what kind of problems can you help them solve, you should be able to identify this and start first by giving them freebies.
- Do not allow your brain to remain dormant- there are certain things people can get from you for free, but do not remain a charity giver forever if you don’t want to remain broke…I have been there before, the experience is not a good one. Brain pickers can be very dangerous, you should be able to know when to say YES or NO.
I am sure with this, you are set for maximum productivity.
To your Intentional Development,
©J. I
(Nwanyiego/The Money Woman)
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