LET’S BE IMPERFECT TOGETHER”
Real relationships aren’t Perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a story book and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is about overcoming hindrances, facing challenges, fighting to be together, definitely not letting go. It is about looking past the imperfections of each other, yet stay strong together.
Relationships become great when you have two people who truly respect and appreciate each other. It needs a lot of trust, forgiveness, sacrifices, communication and loyalty to be in it. Relationships are worth fighting for, but you can’t be the only one fighting.
Love is never about selfishness, judgements or the need to be right- instead, it’s a safe harbor where one consistently strive to appreciate and understand your partner. You support each other when things go wrong and celebrate when any one or both succeed. Love is not a place you go to TAKE, but a place you go to GIVE.
Without equality, mutual support and respect, relationships become imbalanced, insecure and full of resentment.
“SETTING RULES AND BOUNDARIES UNILATERALLY, FOR THE OTHER TO ABIDE, YET NOT COMPLYING TO IT ONESELF, IS NEVER A FAIR BOND”.
It takes both sides to build a bridge. It is never the responsibility of one to work it out because …
“IF THE FEELINGS ARE MUTUAL, THE EFFORTS WILL BE EQUAL”.
© Dr. Ritu Gupta
Author of Solo Books –
“A Place In The Sun”, “The Primrose Aisle”, “Hushed Anguish” and “Amour-Propre”.
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