By: N. George
Worth Noting:
- In a marriage situation if there is yelling or items can be heard being thrown around by anyone outside the house as a signal of continuing conflict between the spouses then upon the door opening either of the party is seen crying people would easily take sides claiming the one who is crying must be the victim of war instead of enquiring to identify who was fighting who.
- Whatever task you do not understand but has passion for will force you to go for lengthy distances to find someone to train you if no trainer is around. You may also spend lengthy hours as you insist on liking to observe as such work is being carried out.
Reason can never be popular. Passions and feelings may become popular, but reason will always remain the sole property of a few eminent individuals….…….. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
A huge sized man who speaks in a soft voice would make many people enjoy listening to him as what they are witnessing as it is against their expectations and would wish to confirm time and again whether they are in real world or just imaginations or dreaming.
Many of his audiences would not care much of the message he is communicating rather they would be concerned with body, his body size and the softness of his sound more so if his voice sounds more feminine than masculine.
A sports fan for example a soccer team fan can travel for long distances so as to show support for his team. Travel costs or timing of the game do not largely affect the decision of whether to attend the match or not provided he is aware in advance he will sacrifice anything to ensure that he supports his team.
A person who loves your dressing code will ignore most of your negative attitudes and focus on what attract him or her to you. Many of those who will criticize you will be seen as jealous people of your smartness in dressing code.
A drawing artist will usually exaggerate that part of the person that he would wish to show interest in. Suppose someone is termed as greedy he would either be drawn with an extra big stomach or with a big plate full of food or a big spoon full of food even without explaining the theme of his cartoon any observer will know there is something to do with overeating. His appetite will be shown as insatiable.
In a meeting if you arrive late wearing expensive clothing, being driven in a luxurious car, with body guards even if those you are meeting with were complaining due to your lateness in arrival once they see you their main focus will turn to your living standards as exhibited by what you are wearing and the cars you are driving some would be fearing to question why you arrived late.
In a marriage situation if there is yelling or items can be heard being thrown around by anyone outside the house as a signal of continuing conflict between the spouses then upon the door opening either of the party is seen crying people would easily take sides claiming the one who is crying must be the victim of war instead of enquiring to identify who was fighting who.
Whatever task you do not understand but has passion for will force you to go for lengthy distances to find someone to train you if no trainer is around. You may also spend lengthy hours as you insist on liking to observe as such work is being carried out.
Once you train and fully understood how the work of choice is carried out it is easy to find yourself working for long periods or not complaining regardless of the amount of work.
However there are people in life who like reasoning in every situation before making decisions. They can be termed as slow decision makers or uneasy to convert but once they make a decision they hold for a lengthy period. Once proper reasoning is applied solutions offered are long lasting and are easily explainable in case one happens to seek to know what influenced them.
Not all decisions made through proper reasoning could be pleasing but they are worthy to abide by as they are objective, realistic and well explained. Many people would be willing to apply passion and feelings to arrive at their decisions as opposed to reasoning terming it as tiresome.
Mary Karau Ngethe