Soft Skills
By: Saul Kalivubha
Worth Noting:
- There is no way you will live without meeting people with all the good and bad habits to avoid it then lock yourself in the island alone but otherwise you must meet people with all the good and bad habits now it will depend on where those people you have met and what position they have for you if it is at work and one office will you quit because of those people? Or will you just sit outside the office to avoid those people?
- That is not possible and it is not the solution you must learn to live with those people.
If it is not you then you will have met someone who complains against people who have unfriendly attitudes and perhaps until that person wants to quit the job in order to avoid meeting those people, it is true that there are people who have behaviors that are difficult to tolerate. they do not have peace when they are with those people who are unfriendly.
Perhaps even you have someone whose behavior has made you ask yourself the question “how does this person live with his or her family in these behaviors?” For if he behave like this is at work , how is it that he is at home in the house of his relatives, with whom others share in the same bed and in the same table? But the truth is that there is no hindrance at all living well with his family just because when they got to know him they learned to live with him by getting used to him as a challenge there is you who are not born with him yet you have not learned to live with him and you probably do not want to learn to live with him.
There is no way you will live without meeting people with all the good and bad habits to avoid it then lock yourself in the island alone but otherwise you must meet people with all the good and bad habits now it will depend on where those people you have met and what position they have for you if it is at work and one office will you quit because of those people? Or will you just sit outside the office to avoid those people? That is not possible and it is not the solution you must learn to live with those people.
Try to figure out what you are arguing about because it is not true that you will be arguing over everything and why in that area? Start developing ways to live with the person in the area and one of the best ways is not to interact too much with him in the area.
Another tactic is to ignore some of her things but do not show that you are ignoring her but do not work on her every event for example you have met her at work you have greeted her she has not responded or she does not greet you that does not give you stress by wondering why she does not respond to your greetings but just ignore her smile when you meet him and do not retaliate for what he is doing to you and that will be the beginning of you living with that person.
Another third tactic is to try to avoid the situation of staying with the person for a long time except when necessary for different professional reasons and thus avoid that person by focusing on other matters.
Another tactic is not to look at his behavior as a hindrance to you but to see if he was created that way and if you can do this then do not talk about how he is in front of others but pray for him to change because his behavior is not only you see it but others also see it. Only thing to do is to learn how to live with him/her
This article was written by Scientist Saul Kalivubha
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