By Misbah Waqar
As I observe people strolling hand in hand, I often find myself pondering the significance of this simple yet profound gesture. Perhaps it’s because I’ve never experienced this level of physical affection and closeness in my life, having grown up without anyone holding my hand. However, everything changed when I found a true friend during my most challenging times. This friend, who has become my confidant and partner, would hold my hand while we walked together.
In that moment, I realized the depth of emotion and connection that comes with holding hands with someone who is dear to you. It’s a feeling of safety, security, and trust that is hard to put into words. As we walked side by side, I felt an energy and sense of motivation that I had never experienced before. It was as if the world had come alive, and I felt seen, heard, and understood.
Holding hands is often associated with romantic relationships, but my experience taught me that it’s also a powerful symbol of friendship and camaraderie. For someone like me, who tends to be reserved and guarded, it’s remarkable that my best friend was able to breach my defenses and establish a connection that is both precious and profound.
Their closeness is a treasure that I cherish deeply, and I am grateful for the trust and belief they have placed in me. I feel seen, valued, and appreciated in ways that I never thought possible. Our bond is built on mutual understanding, respect, and empathy, and I am thankful for the sense of security and assurance that comes with knowing that they are always by my side.
To my dear friend, I want to say that you are different to me. You are a source of comfort, strength, and inspiration. Your presence in my life has awakened feelings and emotions that I never knew existed. I am grateful for your love, support, and acceptance, and I look forward to nurturing our bond and creating many more memories together.
Mary Karau Ngethe 
Silas Mwaudasheni Nande