The Mt Kenya Times 
By: Virginia Mule
Worth Noting:
- Again, a woman may seek a bad boy because he can make her feel secure. If a girl has unresolved trauma, it is tough for her to be comfortable around anyone. If she does not have a sense of belonging, she might look for a guy who validates her.
- A bad boy has an unrestrained spirit, and it is effortless to help their spouse embrace their feelings and live a carefree life. Landing a bad guy can be hard thus girls who settle for them feel privileged.
- In some circumstances, a girl might prefer a bad boy because she does not want something serious. This means she is aware of what she is calling for, and she does not intend to build a real connection.
Many women have a ritual of falling in love with bad boys. Such men are correlated to masculinity which gives them the leverage to take charge in a relationship. In this case, if the relationship is abusive it is hard to advise such a woman since all she cares for is an avowal to keep staying in the relationship. Many consciously overlook red flags anticipating the man to ultimately change for their sake.
Bad boys are not terrified to break rules. Their rebellious personality exhibits domination and strength that many women cannot resist. They are good at sending mixed signals leaving the woman wanting more. This makes them very tempting and thrilling to be with despite being unreliable for a long-term relationship. On some occasions, they are good at protecting their spouses thus increasing their self-esteem. Many girls who pursue bad boys are coping with trauma. If she did not have a father while growing up, she might need a bad boy to fill that void. Mostly, bad boys are said to have a habit of simulating attention to get what they want for their partners before ghosting them.
Again, a woman may seek a bad boy because he can make her feel secure. If a girl has unresolved trauma, it is tough for her to be comfortable around anyone. If she does not have a sense of belonging, she might look for a guy who validates her. A bad boy has an unrestrained spirit, and it is effortless to help their spouse embrace their feelings and live a carefree life. Landing a bad guy can be hard thus girls who settle for them feel privileged. In some circumstances, a girl might prefer a bad boy because she does not want something serious. This means she is aware of what she is calling for, and she does not intend to build a real connection.
Bad guys are known to do things that a good guy may deem shy like touching her without her approval. You will find out that occasionally, a bad guy has no time for her. This makes the woman crave to spend more time with him, compared to the good guy who is readily available. Bad guys are also known to courageously act out their fantasies without pretense. They do not act out of fear. They do what they want when they want. Women just love men who have confidence. It has been said that ladies are attracted to bad boys which is true, but actually, no woman wants to be caught up in a relationship where her feelings are not cherished.
If a woman goes for a bad boy, at least he should not be the toxic type. Many calm and collected girls find themselves connecting with their opposites. This is because they the admire bad boy’s insubordination which they term to be cool. Similarly, bad boys are drawn into sheepish girls whom they can command smoothly. In general, good girls end up with bad boys simply because at some point, society has made it normal for women to be submissive and tolerant.
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