The Mt Kenya Times 
By: N. George
Worth Noting:
- It is through focusing on the strengths that help to yield best output possible thus compensating areas of weaknesses. Such direction of energies also play a huge role in making those who will know you directly or through proxies to focus more on what is more pronounced about you which happens to be your greatest strength. They are able to admire your abilities.
- When you are surrounded by people who are thinking positive issues about you they will radiate positive vibes. They will always wish to see you succeed in life. Their ideas will be on how you will progress in welfare as an individual or as a group.
A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities …………… William Arthur Ward.
Men are innate social creatures. They enjoy interacting with others for several reasons among them to learn what others are doing, to compare themselves with others, to get comforted by others and to brag to others among many other reasons.
Those who have not interacted there before are neither friends nor foes but strangers. Those who have been together there before and formed a union thereafter disagreed on issues becomes foes.
The close proximity or association help friends to learn about each other know their strengths as well as weaknesses, likes and hates. Through thorough understanding of someone you are able to accelerate or decrease his pace in speaking without necessarily need for repetition.
A true friend will focus on how to make you better by promoting what enables you to prosper in life. He will ensure that you always place your right foot in the correct channel.
It is through focusing on the strengths that help to yield best output possible thus compensating areas of weaknesses. Such direction of energies also play a huge role in making those who will know you directly or through proxies to focus more on what is more pronounced about you which happens to be your greatest strength. They are able to admire your abilities.
When you are surrounded by people who are thinking positive issues about you they will radiate positive vibes. They will always wish to see you succeed in life. Their ideas will be on how you will progress in welfare as an individual or as a group.
At the critical moments they will support your success. During the embarrassing moments they will minimize publicity of the issues at hand. When you go astray they will be willing to approach you, disclose the matter thereafter advice you on the best way forward.
Those close to you who never caution you despite you having disclosed to them some risky plans you have are not real friends rather they are after something you possess which you may be aware about or not. Had they been pro your welfare they could have spared no energy in protecting your interests at all times.
Associates need to be evaluated from time to time. Determination need to be done to establish whether your closeness has yielded any positive result if yes it could be termed as a healthy one. When you need to dig deeper and unearth reasons behind that failure which has hindered progress if able to deal with them go ahead and correct them. If unable you need to loosen your grip in the union, quit it or stop laying a lot of emphasis on it to avoid regrets in the future.
In the formative stages some of the parents are seen as harsh to their kids but in future many come to realise what the parents had foreseen when strictly inculcating discipline in his kids. Not all times teaching the don’ts in the society is done using a friendly way sometimes demonstration is better that just a word of mouth.
Anyone who you interact with have great lesson you can learn from him. Do not ponder those chances; learn to be like him if not better than him.
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