To Overcome Fear, Be Ready To Face It

By: N. George

Worth Noting:

• Two strangers who later date then get married cannot reach that stage unless they engaged in conversation. You may befriend such a person who admires someone he or she meets but fears to start the conversation for the fear that he or she may be dismissed or may be interpreted to be desperate for a partner or is lonely.
• It happens that at times the other person could be having similar thoughts at the end of the day you remain strangers who have seen each other but just imagines how the other person thinks of you.
• Until the time you gain courage and either of you start the conversation you may remain doubtful about the opinion of your potential partner about you as the better half.

The first duty of man is to conquer fear; he must get rid of it, he cannot act till then….. Thomas Carlyle.

A look at a bicycle rider you would wonder how he maintains his balance and perhaps it is speeding. When you climb it for the first time high are chances that you fall second and third time too you will fall with it.

Many like to ride but fail to train for the fear that during the training all the falls they get will leave them hurt but you cannot use theory to learn how to balance it. Unless you decide that you will give a trial and not care of the number of times that you will fall provided you learn the new skill your wishes will remain just as mere wishes.

A person who admires swimming but never makes an attempt for fear of being drowned remains a admirer until that time he will dispel all the fears, get in to water and practice what he has been thinking about until he perfects it.

There are certain careers that majority of people in the society treat as prestigious for example an engineering course but at the same time they claim that studying them is demanding in terms of time and mentally draining so you find some of the potential learners who admire the course but are afraid to study it for fear that they may fail. Unless they ignore the hearsay, enroll and study their dreams to be in such professions would remain just dreams.

Two strangers who later date then get married cannot reach that stage unless they engaged in conversation. You may befriend such a person who admires someone he or she meets but fears to start the conversation for the fear that he or she may be dismissed or may be interpreted to be desperate for a partner or is lonely.

It happens that at times the other person could be having similar thoughts at the end of the day you remain strangers who have seen each other but just imagines how the other person thinks of you.

Until the time you gain courage and either of you start the conversation you may remain doubtful about the opinion of your potential partner about you as the better half.

When visiting new places and tends to be unclear of the direction of a certain location of interest there are people who would walk or drive in various roads until they reach the feature of their interest for example you have travelled to Nairobi city and you wish to visit the national archives.

However there are others who are bold enough once they are in the city they ask for direction. Much as not all people would be knowing where you are heading to or would wish to direct you if you happen to find someone genuine you would have an easy time as there could be no struggles in getting to the location.

The fear of how anyone you ask the ion will respond to you may make you have unnecessary delays or get tired before you locate the venue. You will also not be able to determine whether there are genuine people who can direct you to your location of choice or not.

As human beings we need to learn a lot from human babies who are born unable to speak like adults, unable to eat like them, unable to walk like adults but overtime they perfect in doing all these acts. When unable to walk they crawl then use available structures to reinforce self as they walk, when unable to stand they use what is available as support then stand. When unable to pronounce the words spoken by others correctly they pronounce how they hear until they perfect over time.

Any trial you make counts even if you fail in your next trial you will be able to know from where to start and also what to avoid minimizing the chances of failing like in your last attempt.

Failure to try is usually mental energy which can be changed into success through getting practically involved in what you fear. It is a challenge to you to go and try what is legal and important to you but you failed to do it due to fear of failing.