By N. George
Worth Noting:
- Valuing those around you does not mean that they manipulate all that what you do whenever they have complain about you they need to be objective otherwise some may derail your progress with unsubstantiated claims at times due to personal biases like misunderstanding or jealousy.
- It is advisable for you to be aware that there is nothing that you will do in life that other people will fail to comment about no matter how good or weird it is. With this in mind your actions should be predominantly to please those around you.
- Congratulations and criticism is part of life and you need to be ready to receive portions of both in all whatever you do.
Fear of what other people will think is the single most paralyzing dynamic in business and in life. The best moment of my life was the day I realized that I no longer give a damn what anybody thinks. That’s enormously liberating and freeing, and it’s the only way to live your life and do your business …………… Cindy Gallop
Human beings are social in nature. They take interest in whatever their fellow humans are doing whether good or bad and try to take actions by making the situation favourable to them. When what their fellows are doing they try to replicate them and wish to be closer and closer to them to enjoy the benefits but when unsatisfied they complain making loud enough to be noticed by the one involved trying to dissuade him from continuing with such processes.
When thinking of the social nature of other human beings do not view yourself in isolation rather include yourself and think of implication of whatever you do to the lives of those who are affected by your deeds.
In whatever you do it is important not only to look at the economic benefits you derive from it but also the social aspect of it. Much as it may be legal how it affect those around you is important.
Valuing those around you does not mean that they manipulate all that what you do whenever they have complain about you they need to be objective otherwise some may derail your progress with unsubstantiated claims at times due to personal biases like misunderstanding or jealousy.
It is advisable for you to be aware that there is nothing that you will do in life that other people will fail to comment about no matter how good or weird it is. With this in mind your actions should be predominantly to please those around you.
Congratulations and criticism is part of life and you need to be ready to receive portions of both in all whatever you do.
When learning to stand a young kid uses structures or objects near him as reinforcement, when unable to walk he crawls and when unable to talk he just pronounces what he has heard or what he can remember. Those around him older than him may laugh at him but that does not deter him from repeating the same processes until that time he perfects his art. The same should apply to us as adults whatever we are doing with a good intention should not be derailed by the unfair criticism of those around us rather we should aim at perfecting it so as to attain our goals.
When dealing with numericals upon calculation at times we give our answers as estimates as the resultant figure may be too huge or not a whole number or there are assumptions in our calculations. This means that not every answer in life is perfect so should we not expect those we deal with to be perfect or their thinking to be exactly similar to ours are we were born with different capabilities and our experiences and preferences in life are also difference. These differences are noticeable even among the identical twins so we need to appreciate diversity among people and be ready to embrace them and at the same time promote unity with them.
When it comes to wanting to gain popularity a project is either highly liked by people or bringing great displeasure to them thereby making them to widely debate it otherwise if it is ordinary few people would take interest in discussing about it. In such circumstances if what you are doing is intended to give you fame do not fear being either exceptionally good or controversial so as to be sensational.
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