Choose to remain among ladies and gentlemen, not just ordinary men and women
By: Wafula Meshack
Worth Noting:
During my free times, away from writing and doing a lot of reading, I always love myself having nature walks alone or watching you tube videos ranging from documentaries, dramas to pranks. By saying so, I am used or kind addicted to one of you tube content creators, Denny-C,a cool, real and kind gentleman, who loves calling himself Mr polite, the chief prankster of Gold digger pranks.
Remember I have quoted him as a gentleman, not a man, because not all men can get themselves into situations Denny-C gets himself into and come out with good intentions. Indeed he is polite. Denny-C is true definition of a real wise man.
I love his content because I always learn a lot about ladies and women. Yes ladies and women, we are having in this materialist world. Why stick and put more emphasis on ladies and women? There is a great difference between a woman and a lady.
There are things that a lady does that a woman is not doing. From the videos, majority of females here in Kenya are women but not ladies. This brings me to the idea of ladies and gentlemen, first lady, best lady Our lady, ladylike, ladyship etc. Have you ever asked yourself why we don’t call or say “men and women” during official and serious inaugural meetings, instead you will hear “ladies and gentlemen”.
In the same vein, why not address the wife to the president as first woman, instead first lady. Think about it.
Back to the meats and potatoes of me putting an ink on the paper. From one of the videos I watched recently uploaded on 5 May 2022,I learnt something great that I have been preaching since I discovered myself. Just to summarize the video for the sake of humble readers, Denny-C had approached a lady as obvious, ushered her into his car, and started engaging in a small confabulation. This is how the conversation was.
“Am Dennis, what about you?
“Am Joylynn”
“What do you love doing”
“I love dancing”
Since she said she loves dancing, Denny-C demanded that she dances for him. And to my surprise and his, the lady was willing to do it. They came out if the car placed some music “Alcohol” and started dancing. Don’t forget that this was happening in a broad daylight, in an open market where vehicles were passing and everybody could see her doing what she loves.
To make the short story shorter, this is what I learnt; a person will never be afraid or shy of doing something that he/she loves. No matter what happens or regardless of the place, as long as it’s giving you that peace of mind that you deserve and makes you feel free, you will always find yourself doing it with a lot of ease and comfort ability
As I had said earlier, Denny-C was surprised but the lady was not anymore. She was okay with it and exhilarating. From the video, she felt as if she had done nothing in particular. “Yeah, I told you I love dancing” She replied back after getting in the vehicle.
We all know that there are many of us who love dancing. Yes, almost everybody loves dancing. It’s easy to say and tell but a hard nut to crack when it comes to execution. The only thing that differentiates us “sayers” and “doers” is action. The sages once said, actions speak louder than words. And from this case, this lady decided to show if not prove that Indeed she loved dancing from the heart and action. Sincerely speaking, I could not do that. Dancing in the public in this world, No Way! Despite the fact that I will continue saying I love dancing.
People, who do what they love regardless of the place and situation, are those who have discovered themselves and never tied down by what the public see or perceive them to be. They are world beaters. They are those who never let other people’s opinions to be their reality. They walk the talk and always live to one mantra, sticking to what the love.
My message is this, we are all equal physically but mentally totally different. We perceive things differently. Yes, all of us are mad but our levels of madness are what make some of us be called wise. When doing something, never get intimidated by what other people will see. Some will see others will look. As long as it’s giving you that peace of mind you want, you just do it. The first step of failure is trying to do things in order to impress others unwillingly.
Male and female who do things in order to impress others, while getting hurt inside; they are now what we call men and women. Those who are never threatened or scared of doing what they ought to do freely, especially by men and women, now qualify to be called ladies and gentlemen. Ladies and gentlemen as I conclude this compendious piece of writing, what I can say is never allow anybody to make you feel inferior without your consent or permission. Choose to remain among the ladies and gentlemen.
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