Evaluate The System Before Acting

By: N. George

Worth Noting:

• Instead of wasting your energies where such differences are presence and unsolved it is better to pray or worship independently. On the contrary if you continue with joint worship you may end up getting something that will be opposite of what you are targeting in one way or the other harming you.
• There are times when you enter a hotel wishing to have food but fail to have faith with the staff there or they show lack of interest in serving you. If all the food present is cooked by them then better not to consume them as you will feel guilty for not being sure how safe the food is to you.

There are two things that are more difficult than making an after-dinner speech: climbing a wall which is leaning toward you and kissing a girl who is leaning away from you. ……… Winston Churchill

In a marriage situation the major reason for the parties involved coming together is mutual benefit in terms of comfort, social network, having children among other factors. The union needs to be voluntarily and both parties need to have adequate information about each other before making the commitment.

In the course of union the viewpoints of the parties involved towards each other may change due to change in circumstances where one party may start behaving in a weird way or discover something new that is undesirable it failed to know during the courtship time.

When such differences arise and either of the party involved is unwilling to iron out the differences, It is advisable to either look for a third party support to solve the issue or part ways otherwise living together when experiencing difficulties may lead to undesirable outcomes like parties endangering each other or others of escalated hostilities.

Most of us as human beings have our religious inclinations which purely depend on our perception at any given time. Much as you are in the same religious institution say a church you may realise that there are some who do not like to lead or be led by you. Under such circumstances religion being a matter of believing in a superior power, praising, thanks giving and interceding there is no need to jointly do this with that person who you differ with for it will be ineffective as the opposing positions be neutralizing each other’s faith.

Instead of wasting your energies where such differences are presence and unsolved it is better to pray or worship independently. On the contrary if you continue with joint worship you may end up getting something that will be opposite of what you are targeting in one way or the other harming you.

There are times when you enter a hotel wishing to have food but fail to have faith with the staff there or they show lack of interest in serving you. If all the food present is cooked by them then better not to consume them as you will feel guilty for not being sure how safe the food is to you.

On contrary if there are food which are bought from another entity that you trust and is already packaged and sold within that hotel like bottled soft drink you may take as the contribution by the staff selling to you is purchasing and packaging only otherwise no need to chance with your life or get involved in unnecessary conflicts where you have an option of avoiding such issues.

When you want to construct a house and you look for a contactor but during the negotiations before commencement of work you happen to doubt the quality of his work more so design or suitability or strength of the structure and upon trying to seek clarification from him you seem to differ opinion wise better to stop the engagement as this is an investment involving huge sums of money. Upon completion you will not need to demolish, redesign or put extra reinforcements. This will eliminate future regrets or unbudgeted costs.