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Lost sheep - girl dating
By Paula.O.M.Otukile
Botswana, Gaborone.
Worth Noting:
- She fell pregnant and with a lot of controversy amongst them about the past, the now and the future they panicked, she made drastic decisions and her situation compelled her to begin to stay at home, when he goes out to party.
- That was the beginning of their nightmare; she began to get paranoia of him cheating or betrayal of nonexistent story.
- He had energy for the weekend and various mobile and ready to go with him crowd, she had no activity on weekends, she got lonely and started to feel air between them and alienation began.
April 2021 She met an amazing guy with a very energetic aura.They had met before but this time he brought peace and calamity to her soul and well being.
It began with a wheel wind of romance.She was betrothed to someone else oceans away, she came to rest her head, but COVID-19 hit and she stayed as she just lost her grandmother her suitor allowed her to stay a bit more.
The city welcomed her well, with a bounty everyone was a friend, and easily lovable plus a series of parties to drink and be merry.
She joined some religious group but for fun since she found another lost soul like herself who was a written party animal.
They went to church then later on went on drinking sprees.
He was tall, alluring a hunk on his own right, lived alone with a friend had an amazing attitude and welcoming space to rest head from drinking sprees and nagging sunday woes, mostly the controlling boyfriend.
She came to him as a refuge, a solace, things went dramatically fast and within a blink of an eye she could not get enough of him, jilted her then boyfriend despite lots of opposition, from friends and family.
He seemed extremely happy and comfortable with her.A chaotic loud and too much energetic individual.
Eventually the wheel wind romance ended and reality strikes, she had to return back to the oceans to her husband.
The new lover convinced her she had him if they could stick things up, they had a future, it was beautiful but not rosy without money but important they were happy.
The pressure to leave ended he won her, the local boyfriend was just a façade, she ignored him until he got the message.
Relationship built on tears never thrives as karma awaits on corridors of every corner to usher the tit for tat.
She fell pregnant and with a lot of controversy amongst them about the past, the now and the future they panicked, she made drastic decisions and her situation compelled her to begin to stay at home, when he goes out to party.
That was the beginning of their nightmare; she began to get paranoia of him cheating or betrayal of nonexistent story.
He had energy for the weekend and various mobile and ready to go with him crowd, she had no activity on weekends, she got lonely and started to feel air between them and alienation began.
Her reaction became non vocal moments whenever sad, he got repelled like a magnet and the weekends of 2022 became the worst nightmare.
By the end of the first quarter she had packed more than sixteen times yet had no courage to go, she had numerous excuses of her bipolar reactions but decorated them with the melancholy name or anything more humble but the damage was done.
She drank and the worst pull her Down syndrome bout will come if he tried to reprimand her, she felt victimized and belittled more often and verbally abused those whom she had any altercations with.
All them crowd would be his personal friends somehow as a newbie she do come across as uncultured and insecure but a story of unrequited love and empty emotional unemployed damsel who lost her life trying to build new happiness and love nest.
She finally found courage to pack, leave and found warmth under a new unknown world called hope as she pushed in the darkness of empty dreams pilling daily in front of her lonely unbecoming world.
Message to the young ladies, listen to parents they know better than us as children.
Advice to young men, love does not alter when the alterations finds nor bend with the remover to remove it is an embarking mark a star, hence the issue of getting a young woman and changing her when the going gets tough, one will die trying to build a home, make a choice and stick to it!
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