OF ALL THE HARDSHIPS A PERSON HAD TO FACE, NONE WAS MORE PUNISHING THAN THE SIMPLE ACT OF WAITING!
By: Dr. Ritu Gupta
Worth Noting:
- Man, being a social being is encircled with responsibilities which cannot be disregarded at any cost. Sometimes, even when broken, having no reason to carry on, the duty towards the loved ones, leaves one with no option, but to live. No one realizes the agony of the silent sufferings under the smiling mask.
- The inexplicable pains are so hurting that they can neither be expressed nor can they be ignored. Neither do they let one live nor die. Once a person is shattered from within, all the materialistic achievements, can only make him smile but cannot be the source of true happiness for him.
They don’t have a plan B, it’s either THE ONE or NO ONE for them. Love is not something which can be defined or shown. It is a feeling which can only be felt. No arguments, no explanations can establish it.
It is the inkling for the person you miss the most when everyone else is around.
Relationships last long not because they are destined to last long. Relationships last long because two brave people make a choice…to keep it, to fight for it and to work for it. Most relationships don’t end because couples stop loving each other. They end, because one of the two stopped giving the other, the attention, communication, security and affirmation they need. One should not choose someone without understanding or forsake someone without understanding, as love is in the heart, not in words while anger resides in words, not in the heart. Anger fades but the damage remains. Trusting you was their decision, proving them right is your choice.
Never leave a True Relationship because of some faults. No one is perfect. We all make mistakes.
Not all have the mindset to move ahead in life getting associated with new people, obliterating the past. It’s either HERE or NEVER for them.
MOVE ON, two words, six letters, easy to say but harder to do. Not all can MOVE ON. Some get stagnant with time. The only option left for them thus, is either to wait for things to be alright or fade away into darkness hurt and damaged.
Man, being a social being is encircled with responsibilities which cannot be disregarded at any cost. Sometimes, even when broken, having no reason to carry on, the duty towards the loved ones, leaves one with no option, but to live. No one realizes the agony of the silent sufferings under the smiling mask.
The inexplicable pains are so hurting that they can neither be expressed nor can they be ignored. Neither do they let one live nor die. Once a person is shattered from within, all the materialistic achievements, can only make him smile but cannot be the source of true happiness for him.
In a true bond, if the energy doesn’t arouse, if the spirit doesn’t uplift, if the genius within doesn’t help think deeper, if the passion doesn’t move each other, if it doesn’t help the duo to evolve or open up the heart of each other, they are not the ones, meant for each other. Love is not about dating, it’s about elevating. Loving does not mean compromising on one’s self respect. Love is not meant to fulfill each other’s needs, it’s about complimenting each other’s shortcomings, being there for each other in the ups and downs of life and understanding each other’s feelings with or without words. It’s about valuing each other as they are and thanking them to be a part of your life.
True Relationships have five steps to it-
Seeing, Liking, Loving, Achieving and Staying Besides Through All!
The most difficult is the last step, where most relationships give up when they are faced with adversities. No relationship is a journey of all roses and no thorns. Adversities is what brings out the best in a bond making it stronger and deeper.
Life is too short to live in grudges. Love is not about loving only when the time is right. True love is about loving even when there’s no hope of coming back yet the faith and trust, that it will work out one day, still exists.
Loving Is Not About Winning Or Forcing Someone To Stay In Your Life. It’s about their happiness above yours. If people don’t feel you fit in their lives, Move Away..for their happiness!
But people who truly love, don’t need any reason to stay, even if from afar, in the bond they value more than themselves. They do not have conditions for being with you. They accept you, as you are, unconditionally. They are never OVER with you, with or without you.
“WHEN SOMEONE WAITS FOR YOU, THEY HAVE NOT GIVEN UP ON YOU.
HOPE NEVER DIES FOR THOSE WHO TRULY LOVE”
© Dr. Ritu Gupta
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