(Written under the influence of what I saw and some events)
“Some recommendations for parents in raising children”
Being a parent, it is not easy to take responsibility and raise a child. If there is a little neglect, they can get involved in anything. They always think that you should be strict with them. But this does not mean that you should always be strict with the child and always fight. You want to teach the horse the right way until he reaches it. But no matter how much you beat the child, it will never help. Worse, they will be cold towards you. Your respect will disappear.
Respect their decisions;
You should not neglect their goals;
You should give them their freedom without pampering them.
The main thing is to know how to listen to your child!
Always pay attention to your child’s dream goals and respect their abilities. So-and-so’s child knows math. You should also study math, history, and IT!
Unfortunately, in many parents, their child knows this type of piston very well. They say, “You have learned too!”. Have you asked your child first about his interest, the field of science he is interested in?
Never compare your child with someone else’s child!
Every child has his own abilities given by God. Someone is strong in science. Maybe your child is interested in sports, art, IT, why would someone say, “Why can’t you do it?!” “should be compared by saying?!
Allow your child to pursue an area of interest. What your child can do may not be possible for the child of the pumper who praises you. The more you compare your child, the more he loses interest in his own identity and begins to fall into depression. Let your child be like HIMSELF, not like SO-and-so’s child. And the thoughts that no one understands me and why they compare me to him appear in their minds, and their interest fades. Because every child has his own interests, abilities, self-thinking worldview. If every parent listens to their child’s abilities and uses them, they would go in the direction they are interested in. Therefore, no child’s field is the same. If his fellow doctor does this, he shouldn’t do it either. It can’t be like that.
Don’t compare your child at all and listen, this is the thing that has the most negative effect on the child. It even makes the parents think that they hate me!
Always give your child their freedom without pampering them.
No matter who asks you to do something or what clothes to wear (I can’t tell you everything, of course you should consult with your parents), I mean let the child make decisions that he can make without fear. That’s it. What do you mean, parents, don’t be afraid. Let them make their own personal decisions freely. Therefore, you should give them such freedom and strong confidence, say the words “I believe in you”, “I respect their decisions”, and only then have a child. He starts to try to justify the trust given to him, but many people say that if he doesn’t have to take it hard, he will do as he knows how. No! this is a big mistake!
Give them confidence, motivation, and then a child
My parents and me
He tries harder because he respects my decisions and interests. He is also afraid of abusing the trust given to him. Can he act? under depression?!
He does it only because he is afraid.
Author Bakhora Bakhtiyorova Asliddin daughter was born 2006 21-march republic of Uzbekistan International Journalist,monologist.