Til Kumari Sharma
Female is originator of every children but the parents weep in birth of female child in Nepal and India. When first child is female, they wait for boy child. Wonder is here in our surroundings. When the mother gives birth for daughters frequently she is abused severely. Our society is not still matured enough to see male/ female equally. When daughters are only born, then the parents need son to have heredity.
This society has cursed daughters as enjoyable doll to marry only. Very often, the husband marries another to get son. There is dowry system in marriage day. Many females are killed due to lack of property. Money is foremost thing to give in marriage day. Poor cannot afford marriage to rich boy due to lack of money. City boys hate poverty of remote areas’ girl. The females are dominated enough from birth home to boy’s home. The poor girl cannot marry to city boy due to lack of dowry. The life of female is in very bad condition. The poor parents throw female child outside after giving birth or throw somewhere in bush. It is very sad condition in Nepal and India to be daughter. Many parents do abortion when female child in womb. The females are abused, raped and exploited enough and the separate security should be there to secure them. So the parents seem worried to give birth to daughters. The dowry system makes the parents unhappy. How pitiable condition of society is established in our countries. The girl seems to have deception in love due to lack of money. The marriage is paused due to lack of money. How do we improve situation in this society to respect woman status?
Women are viewed as selling entities in the society in the name of bad marriage and fake love. Though they are mothers to give birth for both genders they are not seen equally. How pitiable mind of patriarchy in world?
As educated hands of today’s world, we have to bring woman empowerment with equality and respect. The woman should not be abused in writing and speech and she should not be compared with money, material and sexual entity. She must be respected as higher being in earth. All males are not bad in world. Few males did bad. So clothes of female should be made with security. The modern science has to make strong clothes to protect female body. Accept female as heredity and she is seed too. Everywhere in world woman must have self-power to protect herself from coming shortcomings.
Β© Til Kumari Sharma ( Pushpa )
Paiyun, 7- Hile
Parbat, Nepal
Now Kirtipur, Kathmandu