Has love been this perfect?
This loving?
This cute?
This warming?
They all fell the same feeling when the fire is still burning hot.
Then it goes to worse.
People change.
Then love seems to get to suffer.
It’s heart pounding, seeing a perfect creation going down the drain.
How someone can love so much to hate and hurt.
One point I have noticed.
Many turn to love deeply and hurt deeply.
But the question turns to hit me, if you don’t love deeply then you aren’t loving whole heartily.
So would you go with it or not.
Love is complicated.
Uniquely at that.
~Nobuhle Maseko
- Abuse
I hear many say, why don’t you just leave him?
Why did you not report him?
Were you that stupid to stay the first time he laid his hands on you?
But no one ever asks what’s holding you back?
Are you okay?
How can we help you?
Those are the questions you should be asking.
Seeing it from the outside view, it seems like an easy decision.
Nevertheless when love is involved, everything is complicated.
Love can blind you in the most stupidest way.
Love can hold you back.
Love can control you.
There are children involve,
which parent wants their children growing up with a single parent?
Or maybe it was just an accident, he is a good man.
He will change.
Having too much faith in a faithfulness person.
Those are all the answers to the questions.
It’s hard as ever.
Not as easy as it may be seen.
It hurts seeing people who are supposed to love and protect do the opposite.
But life is complicated and forever will be.
However we need to support and find solutions.
But I don’t think there is a solution to the heart.
~Nobuhle Maseko
#Bringing awareness why so many are still in abusive relationships.
#what’s the way forward?
