By: N. George
Worth Noting:
- People having confidence in you is what will make them reveal important secrets to you, trust you with what they value most and be ready to teach you in what you require to fit well in their schemes thereby building strong relationships.
- When issues are unclear today it does not mean that they will remain so forever. Those who are unable to establish truth may opt to give you a benefit of doubt or hate you blaming you for unfavourable outcome. If you are truthful in what you stand for but they doubt your opinion, over time when the truth shall come to light their levels of confidence in you will improve. On the other side if you had lied and time proves you wrong you will not be easily trusted in future.
Stand with lies and comfort and you build something weak. Stand with truth and honesty and you build something strong ………….Maxime Lagacé .
Men are selfish in nature. We need not to blame ourselves for this as doing so will add no values to us rather we should put measures in place that will help minimize the degree of this greed.
When jealous of the other person do not condemn yourself, do not hurt the other person ask yourself what positive thing you can do to achieve to attain comparable or better levels that that other person using resources at your disposal.
Doing this will help you to remain real to yourself, wisely use your talent and direct your energies to a worthy course bearing in mind that much as you admire what others are doing someone else is somewhere silently admiring whatever positive you do.
Continuing with a course that you are good at aiming at achieving the best results possible is remaining honest to yourself, reducing struggle with inferiority thoughts and embracing your gifting. There is an increased level of creativity when operating in your natural path and use of minimal energies which brings about contentment in a way.
The self-esteem is boosted hence enable you to interact in a better way with the rest of the people, improve bargaining capacity and live a happy life.
Well planned personal improvement starts with knowing who you are in terms of what you have, what you want and the practicability of using the resources available to meet your expectations.
You do not necessarily need to be good at a certain work to carry it out but you can learn it over time otherwise if you want your products to be of exceptional high quality despite your limitations you can opt to hiring specialists who will work for you so you will take the credit for the product. Your ability to assign duties correctly and coordinate all functions well will make you the most noticeable person in the operations that you are involved in.
When confronted with a question that is difficult for you to correctly respond to rather that doing guess work at times resulting to lying it is better you seek for time to respond so that you can do research or if aware that the one asking the question has the answer you can request for his view on the issue as this will help you with the required solution.
No one has monopoly of all the knowledge so there is no need to lie that you have solution to every issue. To be realistic it is good to accept that some of the situations you encounter you need support of others instead of struggling solely with every issue that is affecting you, mind you even the teachers who you admire a lot were once students before further training to become subject matter experts.
When you fail to dominate due to standing for what you know without exaggerating many of those who will think they are better than you may underrate you openly but over time they will see your importance in their lives as they will be unable to cite your contribution in misleading them.
People having confidence in you is what will make them reveal important secrets to you, trust you with what they value most and be ready to teach you in what you require to fit well in their schemes thereby building strong relationships.
When issues are unclear today it does not mean that they will remain so forever. Those who are unable to establish truth may opt to give you a benefit of doubt or hate you blaming you for unfavourable outcome. If you are truthful in what you stand for but they doubt your opinion, over time when the truth shall come to light their levels of confidence in you will improve. On the other side if you had lied and time proves you wrong you will not be easily trusted in future.
Honesty pays handsomely. Cultivate culture of honesty. Anyone who will come to realize your nature will tend to fall in love with you to an extent of seeking an advice from you as they will have trust in you.
